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Tuesday, July 31, 2012

How to Deliver a Killer Thank You Speech

Writing a terrific thank-you speech is great, but the magic behind a really great speech is the speaker's ability to deliver it in a manner that matches the eloquence of the words themselves. Here are eight keys to delivering a fantastic acceptance speech that anyone can use.

1. Speak to individuals
Instead of addressing your audience as a large group of people, create "mini conversations" by speaking to individual members of your audience. Pick a specific person or a spot in the crowd, deliver a complete thought, then look at a different person, deliver a complete thought and so on. People will feel an instant connection with you because you're looking them in the eye as you speak.

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Know where people are sitting so that when you're thanking the committee or specific members of the organization, you can look in their general direction to show them you care and to honor them.

How to Deliver a Killer Thank You Speech

2. Pause
As much as your audience will enjoy listening to your 3-5 minute speech, they will equally welcome appropriate pauses during your presentation. If you want to emphasize something, say it and then pause to allow your listeners a chance to reflect. Remember, time and space get all jumbled up in the mind of the speaker.

When you pause during your speech for 2-3 seconds to let a point or comment sink in, it will feel like you haven't said anything since the cretaceous period. But to your audience the silence will be refreshing and well received.

3. Slow down
Slow down. Slow down. Slow down. Even when they're trying to be mindful of their pace, many public speakers rush through their speech like an overly eager shopper at 5 a.m. at a door-buster sale on Black Friday.

Take your time, this isn't the Oscars. The orchestra won't begin playing to force you off the stage. You have all the time in the world, enjoy your moment in the sun.

4. Speak up
Speakers often overestimate how loud they're talking even when using a microphone. Speak forcefully and clearly into the microphone so that your voice sounds slightly louder than normal conversational volume to your listeners. If you're unsure how you sound, ask the audience it they can hear you.

5. Smile
Your speech is commemorating a joyous, uplifting moment not a funeral. Make sure your smile reflects it. Even if you feel incredibly nervous on the inside, a smile tells your audience that you're happy to be there and you're thrilled by the honor of being recognized.

6. Show and tell
Today's audiences are accustomed to unbelievable amounts of visual stimulation from Hollywood to the Internet to video games. Your challenge is to engage your listeners using just your voice, your face and your arms. No easy task. But you can answer your audience's cry for eye candy by using your entire physical presence to bring your speech to life.

Let your arms and gestures be an extension of the words you're saying and think about how you can communicate size, time, numbers, geography, etc. with you hands. Gestures are a great way to add punch to your speech, get rid of nervous energy and generate a temporary boost in your volume and vocal inflection.

7. Don't talk over applause or laughter
If you should be fortunate enough to get some laughter or applause during your speech, be sure to let your audience fully express themselves in the moment. Remain quiet until the laughter or applause dwindles to almost nothing and then pick up right where you left off.

8. Do the two-step (pivot)
The two-step pivot is a unique move you can use when you're giving a speech from behind a podium and it serves two purposes. It allows you to release some nervous energy and it gives the appearance of movement even though you're basically standing in one place. Here's how it works.

Think of the area you're standing as a clock face, and if you're standing directly behind the podium facing the audience, that is considered 12 o'clock. To do a two-step pivot, move your feet to left (one at a time) so that they are pointing in the direction of 10 o'clock. Deliver a sentence or two and then pivot both feet back to 12 o'clock.

A few moments later point both feet to the right in the 2 o'clock position, and so on. The two-step pivot is great because it enables you to address different parts of the room and it confers the appearance of movement while keeping your mouth close to the microphone.

Follow these time-tested suggestions and you'll be well on your way to giving the thank you speech of a lifetime.

How to Deliver a Killer Thank You Speech

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Tuesday, July 10, 2012

How to Be Happy

The world is full of different cultures-different colors, different customs, different foods, different priorities. With those cultures, within your own culture, every person is unique-different values, different thoughts, different beliefs.

Despite this incomprehensible variety, we often hear that people are the same. How is that possible? How can we be so different, yet somehow all the same? While a complete answer to that question is outside the scope of this article, the most fundamental explanation is quite simple: we all want to be happy.

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How we get to 'happy' may take a thousand different forms. Some people believe pursuing material abundance will lead them to that promised land. Others think a life of austerity and self-denial are the only true roads. But who's right?

How to Be Happy

Both and neither.

It's hard to find a step-by-step method to attaining lasting happiness, but the basics are pretty simple and straightforward. The most important realization, the crucial beginnings of any journey to a happier life and a more enjoyable existence is understanding that you decide how you feel in every moment of your life.

Sure, it's not as obvious as deciding what color shirt to wear in the morning, but every time you feel something, it's because you've decided. At this point, people usually become defensive, especially if they're not feeling too great because almost nobody wants to take responsibility for feeling crummy. That, however, doesn't change the fact that you are responsible for how you feel, almost all the time. Participating consciously in your emotional state is a big step forward.

Another understandable denial tactic is skepticism. People would never choose to feel bad. That's absurd. I agree...it's absurd. It's hard to imagine people making themselves feel bad, but it's an obvious fact. If you need or want evidence sit in a crowded public place and watch the world go by. You'll find plenty of evidence in the scowled faces and closed postures that people clutch onto pain and replay it in their head again and again thereby maintaining that crummy state.

Next, people inevitably point out the plethora of 'bad' things happening in the world as objective reasons why they feel bad and why it's not their fault. I mean, if the world's going to end or the economy's in the toilet, who has time or reason to feel good? For sure, it's a long list, but no matter what's happening in the world around, you still have the ultimate choice to decide how you feel.

I'll concede that there are some events in life that supersede our capacity to influence our emotional state, but they are the rare, rare exception. For example, I think physical violence can temporarily short-circuit our conscious minds and we end up feeling however we've habitually felt or interpreted how we should feel. The loss of a loved one is another time of natural grief, but that's about as far as it goes.

Here's why:

How you feel in any given moment can be described as the physical result of your judgment about the streaming stimulus you're constantly receiving through your senses. Please read that again. Yes, emotions are first a physical experience, a bio-chemical event precipitated by how you judge the experiences of your life. Of course, a lot, maybe most of that judgment is automatic. That is, you're making the same judgments in any particular situation that you've made in the past. I don't like broccoli. Speaking in front of people is terrifying. These are both examples of generalizations, taking one experience and applying it to every other similar experience.

The way to happiness is very simple, and maybe that's what makes it so difficult.

Accept.

Please notice that I said, 'accept' and not 'like.' There's a big difference between the two. Spending so much time thinking about how much you like this or don't like that will only sink you further into feeling miserable because it's so easy to find things that you don't like.

But on the other hand, if you accept the world around you, your life, as it is, then you're creating a much more stable ground on which to build your emotional life. Suspend judgment on how good this is or how bad that is. Merely accept things as they are.

That's the first step. Once you spend long enough, a day, a week, a month, in this mindset of acceptance, you'll have more space between yourself and your emotions. And it's in this space that you'll be able to truly decide how you feel.

How to Be Happy

A problem well stated is a problem half solved....but how do you go about figuring out the other half? To make any change, you've got to familiarize yourself with yourself. That's where it all begins and ends.

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